Attraction Part 1

We come to love not by finding a perfect person, but by learning to see an imperfect person perfectly - Anonymous. In order for us to get what we want, we must first and foremost decide what it is we do want. This rule applies to all areas of our life and a relationship is no different. Just as a radio picks up a certain signal that is transmitted based on the channel that it is tuned to, so must we be specific in understanding what we want in a relationship. If we go out in the world with no clearly defined objective, we only set ourselves up for disappointment. The question to ask is, “What am I attracted to in a mate?" It is unwise to enter a relationship expecting to change the other person. After all, the personality that we are attracted to in the first place is the direct result of who that person is. Who that person coincides with the life that person is living at the time we meet them. They are living according to their values. It is not impossible for someone to decide to change their values, but this is a choice made by them. The more we experience and enjoy what life has to offer, the more interesting we become; the more interesting we become, the more attractive we appear Tune in next time for more lessons from Dokta Laura Attraction